“Why Blame?” Blog #94
What makes me any better than you?
What do I value most in my life about me?
Above all, am I ready to do hard things now?
Blame: the definition means being solely responsible for something bad that has
happened to me. “He/She really had only him/herself to blame”. How often have we
done something over the years and as we look back, and it can only be attributed to a
decision me/myself and I made? Yet, why blame myself as I go on in life for all the
negative things that have happened?
People everywhere will say, that is just the way it is. We are creatures of habit. However,
this is not a good habit! Thoughts that are blameful and self-degrading and dark will
destroy who we are one day at a time. The important statement, “The student is ready
when the teacher appears” means all the lessons we have gone through in our life up
until now - were VERY CRITICAL TO OUR OWN SELF GROWTH! Every day we live and decide
to learn from what has happened to us is purposeful.
Now there is definitely a caveat to these words, WE CANNOT BLAME OTHERS FOR OUR OWN
DECISIONS. WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL THE GOOD AND BAD DECISIONS WE MAKE. The
wisdom comes in knowing discernment. We must know when to choose good over bad.
We must know when to walk away. We must know when to close that door to yesterday
and now move forward!
NOT ONE SINGLE THREAD ON OUR head of hairs is not numbered by our Creator. He knows
us inside and out. Because we are given Free Will we can choose daily of and with our
own volition. What do we want to do? I must not blame myself for any part of my past
because it is gone, finished and over.
Today I deal with a new fresh slate. There is so many reasons I can blame people in my
past for staying stuck. I can think of one reason and another to tear apart their character
and stay at a distance.
Matthew 7:3 writes, “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your neighbors eye
and pay no attention to the plank in your own”?
I know in my past, I have driven people away or attracted people to me based solely
on my own decisions. Today I want to be ready to “DO THE HARD THINGS”. I want to
change my behavior and my attitude and my actions with forgiveness of self first. I start
by seeing myself with an “understanding heart”. In doing this - I ONLY ATTRACT GOODNESS
FROM THE UNIVERSE. I hold no blame to others from my past and by doing this, it frees my
mind of anger.
A long time ago people came up to the Teacher, Jesus, and said to him, “Teacher, this
woman we have here was caught in the act of adultery. The law of Moses says we must
stone her. What do you say?” They were trying to trap him into saying something that
they could use against him, but Jesus stooped down and wrote in the dust with his finger.
The people kept demanding an answer, so Jesus stood up again and said, ”All right, but
let the one who has never sinned throw the first stone!” Then he stooped down and
began writing in the dust. When the accusers heard what he said, they slipped away one
by one. Beginning with the eldest, until only Jesus was left in the middle of the crowd with
the woman. Now Jesus stood up again saying to the woman, “Where are all of your
accusers? Didn’t even one of them accuse you?” “No Lord”, said the woman. And Jesus
said, “Neither do I accuse you. Go, sin no more”.
This message is a lot about blame. Blame, we all need to see, does not have to start with
us. This also talks about what goes hand in hand with blame and it is judgement. No one
has the right to judge another human being. We have not walked in their shoes. IF we
know they were in our life and it was wrong, we need to leave, close the door and do not
look back. Learn from where we have come from. I refuse today to be angry and mad
and sad because of a situation that I have come from. I am better now. I am healthier
now. More than that, I have self love. IF I can stop blaming myself for any and all past
situations that did not work out, IF I can agree it it time now to start over, IF I accept all this
and say to myself, “Now is the time to search deep with in and do the hard work that is
expected of me.”
WHAT IS THE HARD WORK THAT I SPEAK OF HERE?
The hard work is Let it all go! “LETTING IT ALL GO NOW” IT doesn’t matter anymore how I
justify why or how someone treated me poorly. That day is gone. THAT SITUATION IS OVER.
Time to do the hard work, take it all out to the garbage and be done with it.
I must SEE my life differently from this moment on.
I can see that I am a “child of God” filled with beautiful light, love and laughter. I accept
that everyone WHO is in my life right now, is here for a reason and I do not blame anything
or anyone any longer.
I AM READY FOR MY LIFE LESSONS WITH MY EYES WIDE OPEN.
I agree to do my best. I accept all that is HERE RIGHT NOW. ALL given to me on a daily
basis. I see that I am growing and governing where I go with higher self awareness. I
gleam all Gods light to shine into the darkness when and if I need to help someone that
asks for help and is stuck. I will accept all my own challenges with a brave heart. Jesus
Christ’s light shines brightly within me.
I CAN FEEL I NOW HAVE HAD A COMPLETE CHANGE OF HEART.
I am surrounded with the Arch Angel of protection, Micheal. I take on the brave shield of
protection from all darkness and daily I memorize and say the powerful
PRAYER OF PROTECTION
THE LIGHT OF GOD SURROUNDS ME,
THE LOVE OF GOD ENFOLDS ME,
THE POWER OF GOD PROTECTS ME,
THGE PRESENSE OF GOD WATCHES OVER ME,
WHEREVER I AM, GOD IS…AND ALL IS WELL. AMEN.
As I go forward, CAN I LET GO OF, Who, what or why I blame someone today?
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