“Empowered?” Blog #173
What brings energy into my life today?
Where am I stuck with no spiritual truth?
Can I deny feeling empty, and choose to empower myself?
Ever gone someplace or met someone or planned out an event, where in the end, it wound
up disappointing? Looking back I say to myself, “why was that?” What went wrong? Did I
pick the wrong person to get close to for friendship? Do I allow people around me to bring
me down? Do I DEMAND SELF RESPECT? I must remember in every situation I face, meet
that person at their level. Who are they?
First and foremost, I do not judge them. I must listen to what they say. If I feel uneasy
about the relationship or the encounter or the conversation, I listen to my heart now. If
there’s confusion or drama or disappointment in my relationship, what is it telling me?
When I meet someone in a kind manner, I expect the relationship to be “truthful to a fault”
and yet, understanding “never can I fix another human being”. With that being said,
walking away disappointed by results, I may need to take a break from a person. Pray for
the situation and take guidance listening to my heart. I cannot believe a person changes
or will turn out to be better just because I want that. All adults are in charge of themselves.
When I let go of holding on to “how I want another person to be”, my life becomes easier.
Perhaps there is a mate, a friend or a person close, who is just not happy with themself.
Take a look at this. Are they this way day in and day out? Very often if another person
seems angry, depressed and sad a lot, they seem to be content in this category and try to
find other people to bring down to their level! Don’t allow it.
There are so many kinds of people out there who just plain choose to be unhappy, period.
So I listen to my heart and see this is not about me. I need to remember this and move on.
Remembering the rules of who I want to engage with on a healthy level daily.
Comprehending what my guidelines for civility are always trying to remain calm. A mellow
life that is not too high and not too low. I want a life that does not thrive on other peoples
drama each and every day. I want friendships that empower me. When I walk away from
being with my friend or speaking to them on the phone, do I feel better about myself
because of our conversation? Each and every day I remind myself where my own
boundaries lie. I must adhere to working on my own higher self health daily. AS I THINK=
SO I AM. THEN others will feel my empowerment.
MORAL LAWS. SPIRITUAL TRUTH and MY OWN SELF RESPECT are keys to my feeling good.
When I believe I am the “TEMPLE OF GOD” I see “ME” as a miracle of God’s creation. Not one
thing, no one person, no one situation, can tear me down. So, if and when this begins to
happen, “just what am I to do?” I take ten deep breaths. I pray for instant help. Praying for
the person, and remembering cruel words to hurt and harm another, does not make
someone feel good about themself. It helps to also remember this. “A person holding
onto a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping it kills another person”. I believe all
people, all situations, all events come into my life to teach me.
I am insulated in the Armour of Jesus Christ. I send HIS light into every situation I
encounter and every person I meet. Then, I let go until they decide to come to me with a
kind, loving, apologetic heart. Here is where I am willing to start over. This is the basis for a
good, healthy relationship. The only way of earning my self respect. With this knowledge in
tow I feel HIS energy erupt inside me. Yet I am calm, safe and fully empowered.
Can I find the tools to empower myself today?
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